For this blog post, we got two real – and somewhat common – questions. One regarding condoms, where the boy doesn’t want to use it while for the girl, it is a must. Then, a young woman asks our love coach when she should start paying for dinners. Both questions were answered by a love coach, whose name will be secret.

With or without condom?

Question: “A guy that I have been dating claims that he can’t get hard with a condom. What is a polite way to say that I don’t have sex without a condom?”

Coach Answer: “When a man tells you that he does not want to use a condom, the message he is sending you is that he does not value his own life, and he certainly does not value yours. We live in an era where STD’s are easily spread, but we have the means to protect ourselves. If you care about yourself, you will not put yourself at risk. The best answer is to tell your man that you only have sex with a condom, because you value yourself and you value him, and you want both of you to live a long and healthy life.”

When should girls start paying for dinner?

Question: “When do guys expect girls to start paying for a dinner?”

Coach answer: “I believe that women and men are equal partners in a relationship, so while you are still in the dating stage the person who did the asking should do the paying. If he asked you to dinner, then he should pay, but if you asked him, then you should pay.”

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